Stuff EBP Like – If you really want to live with your partner, of course, you have to choose a companion candidate very carefully. Because, with whom you navigate this possibly short life, it will affect your happiness in life.
So, if you close your eyes and are not careful that you have a partner of these seven types, you will definitely have an unhappy life. Anything, anyway?
1. Love cheating
Cheating is okay, humans can make mistakes. But if it has been 2 to many times, it is no longer a mistake, but rather her character or maybe her ‘ fetish ‘ that can’t have one partner. Don’t let yourself be like a terminal, waiting for the bus to come home from wandering. Make sure, don’t want to be with people who are cheating back and forth before getting married!
2. Rough and hitting
You continue to be his personal punching bag. Every time he gets annoyed that may not be your fault or has nothing to do with you, he still plays rough with you. Remember you know, your life can be threatened if you are physically hurt like that. Who wants to be a slave for the rest of his life? Your parents didn’t raise you to be wasted and bullied, right? So you also have to be able to respect your own body.
3. Unreasonable jealousy
If you walk with your friend, he can be jealous. Even though you guys go together. If you cannot be reached, they will immediately accuse you of cheating. Must be tired of having a partner like this, Bela? Jealousy is not always a sign of love, you know! Jealousy can be a sign of insecure . So, for those of you who have a jealous partner, try to check that he must feel he has a lot to lack.
4. Very stingy
Ouch already, if you have a partner who is stingy and begging for mercy, you also won’t find happiness and the joy of having a partner. If in fact he is capable, but he always doesn’t want to pay the price for this relationship, better find someone who can manage money but is not stingy, right, Bela.
5. His hobby owes here and there
Having a partner whose hobby is in debt will not make you happy either. No matter how much you can make, you will definitely spend it to pay off the debts. So, be selective in choosing a partner. Because usually the hobby of debt is always balanced with other talents, namely good at lying. Hence, you will not be happy if you have a partner with this type.
6. Limiting your dream to its own benefit
For example, you cannot join activities or your hobby community because you have to accompany him everywhere. Even though he knows, maybe your hobby is your passion in life. But, that selfish person will never understand your explanation. So, you have to choose a partner who can support whatever your passion is you have.
7. Drug addiction
Okay, he didn’t force you to take illegal drugs. However, people who have been exposed to drugs are never happy ending . If he doesn’t have any money anymore, he can do anything to get what he wants. As a result, those who suffer, of course, are the people around him, including you as a partner.
Couples have to be things that you really choose well. Because you can’t choose who your parents or siblings are. But, you can choose who your partner is. So, instead of being miserable, let’s start to be careful in falling in love now.